This question has crossed my mind a hundred times over......how does some1 move on....how can u?Were those feelings so shallow......I can't say i've found da answer but maybe am getting to know what dis moving on is...
Moving on is when the pain slowly starts dulling
When it is residing in some lonesome corner of ur heart forgotten
Moving on da word itself says that u jus go on from there not erase it
It is that process which rips your heart out n shreds it to peices jus so that u can tape it 2gether
It never promised 2 be easy...it neva promised 2 be quick...nor that the pain won't come to haunt u back
It promised to leave scars....it promised to bring tears....it promised that when u do move on someday when ur drunk n talkin emotional it will be there
Movin on simply means u let life take over for sometime until u'r busy enough 2 not really remember anythin n 1 day 'pronto' u realise that it's ok....someday somethin new will come along n u'll have memories fights all of that
It gives u da licence to bitch about tht person;-)
To have tons of chocolate n ice creams with ur gal pals n abuse da entire species of men(rather b......ds)....sry guys but that's what i meant by licence...this one's for all u heartbroken gals....use this an excuse to go girly(ewww normally 4 me) n pamper urself...luk da best u eva have....if nuthin dat s.o.b will kno wht he lost....
It means a lot of downs so lets luk 4 da ups ....go hav ballistic fun join new activities....catch up on all da things u hven't done...read da buks which u have wanted 2 read but neva had time...see all da movies hittin da theatres....all in da name of movin on....
Movin on we can say is tht u cherish wht u had hurt how much u want to n take a new lease of life....u let those feelings go away...sound funny i kno but time is da best teacher(trust me)
There will be times when u would be like its 2 much to do i'd rather stay wallowing in this pit of despair n self pity feelin dat sense of loss....u would probably survive but would not LIVE....
It has no guarantee no warranty but it lets u kno ur walkin forward on dis road called life...dis was not da only thing(it may have been a defining pt) but there are many more experiences waitin 4 u....
This ain't published in any buk....its jus all that a girl at 18 learnt from life n is still learnin cos dis is wht movin on is doin 2 her.
*dis one's for some1 who had asked me how....hope u found sumthin here
*Yipeee ma 1st blog frm ma own laptop.....finally!!!
4 comments:
moving on...these words themselves have plethora of connotations like macabre...sporofic...something in grey...evolving! the way u prefer to take it... well, lets cut the chase and move on driectly to ur post...lil angel, for me life does not work in a series of innings...its jus lived once...its either black or white...either exist or extinct...jus cant digest the fact tht ppl can move on...acc to me thn, if this is possible then i wud love to believe tht it never existed...then it was plain convenience or hypocrisy or facade...then it never was,wat it was suppose to be...mebbe u can accuse me for being so very yesterday...but then, i wud prefer to stay this way then move on:)
#first thing firsts...congrats for the lappy thingy:)
##thnz for attempting to answer my dilemma on moving on r we switching roles gal...u r good at it...shall we start an NGO "blogoholics anonymous":P
### u know after reading all ur suggestions i feel that thr exists an element os escapism... m sorry if i sound bitter...but m jus too cynically matter-of-fact
####i agree that one needs to move on in life and get going and blah blah blah...move on! i will...cos i need to survive/live..after all, its our life and we don't wanna miss a thing...but dont expect me to leave behind everything and start afresh...it isnt a tapestry of random living...who r we trying to kid?
i 2 agree tht life is lived once...reason y u move on...as far as exist n extinct well u can't be extinct w/o existing can u???
I so kno wht u say when it was i'd rather stay dis way...n maybe t'was not maybe it was...but da pt is its over so either u lament over it n stay lamentin or u move on.But dere is another option 2 u wait ur time n have it again(rememba da song someday!)
It was never meant 2 start afresh leavin everythin behind(it's residing in some lonesome corner...u dont erase it*in da post) cos life isn't a tapestry of random living.It means not 2 stagnate there n continue forward.
Escapism...It is there purposely cos however sad it sounds it helps n dat's wat matters...n ya i rather hav u matter o fact than nethin else.
Hey thamks 4 da lappy thingy(finally sumbody else who says thingy!!!:-))
Dunno bout switchin roles but thanks again 4 da compliment...maybe we might jus start blogoholics anonymous:P
Neways all i hope 4 is dat at da end of evrythin u find happiness.(i kno i kno u don belieive it bt even temp happiness will do)
Life is Beautiful...Keep Smiling.
:) thnx... so thr is loads of stuff up thr lil angel...impressive:)
btw... i dont agree tht thr exists a gender divide on such issues...
the idea of blogoholics anonymous rox...but m bad at being the agony aunt..will look after other stuff...lets think of a name:)
hey thnx...u don even realize when u hav been agony aunt...besides i like da name blogoholics anonymous itself wat say???
:)
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